Expectations and Protocol

“And in Her presence i am once again whole. In Her presence my life has meaning, i exist to serve Her. Solace known only for the brief moment i lay at Her feet.”
Lady Vi

Lady Vi welcomes the longtime enthusiast and curious stranger alike. If this is your first time seeing a Dominatrix, Lady Vi asks you to read the following piece of writing by Simone Justice prior to proceeding any further:

You never know, there could be a test…


Lady Vi is a busy Domina. She cannot accommodate same day appointment requests. Exceptions may be made for her most loyal submissives at her discretion. For first time visitors, a minimum 48 hour advance booking is required to allow for screening.

Prior to scheduling, Lady Vi expects you have taken the time to review the information provided.

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Screening Requirements

On the Session Request Form (linked above) you will need to provide information Lady Vi can use to verify your identity. This will include your full legal name, date of birth, and the city/state you live in. Lady Vi reserves the right to ask for additional information, and you will provide it upon request or your booking request will be denied. Lady Vi accepts references from established Dominatrices. Inquiries which do not include a reference or the additional screening information outlined above will not get a response.

NOTE: If you do not have a reference, you will be required to submit a deposit at the time of booking.

If you request prohibited activities in your booking request, you will automatically fail the screening process and not get a response. If you don’t receive a response it means Lady Vi either did not approve your request or Lady Vi’s response was sent to your Spam folder. If you were denied and believe this is in error, you may reach out to inquire why. There are times when a request doesn’t make it through the system to Lady Vi. It is always worthwhile to follow up as technological errors do occasionally arise.

Session Activities

Lady Vi’s submissives understand that the list of possibilities for their session are as limitless as their ability to openly communicate their needs and desires. Whether you find that you have a strong need to lay at the feet of a beautiful dominant woman to find comfort and solace, or the need to be violently beaten, bruised, and tortured for the enjoyment of a wicked sadist, the ability to communicate the desired outcome of your session to Lady Vi will ensure a quality experience.

Prohibited session activities include: sex or sexual activities, brown showers or scat. Lady Vi has the power to add additional activities to the prohibited activities list at her will and will do so whenever she see’s fit.

WARNING: It is your job to know your limits and properly convey them in all situations. You are ultimately responsible for your own safety in the activities you consent to engage in, and you are responsible for full disclosure prior to your session of anything that may threaten your safety. If you are not sure – ask.

Before Your Session

Lady Vi will contact you the evening before your scheduled session to confirm. If you fail to confirm, your session will be cancelled. Unless specified otherwise, confirmations are accepted up to 3 hours prior to the start of your session. Directions will be provided when you have confirmed your attendance.

During Your Session

Lady Vi will set aside a period of time at the start of your session to talk with you. If at any time Lady Vi feels uncomfortable you will be asked to leave and your session will be terminated. Lady Vi does not tolerate disrespectful behavior. At no time will you attempt to touch Lady Vi. You will follow any and all direction given. Noncompliance will not be tolerated. When your session time is over you will exit the facility immediately.

There will be a cool down period, also referred to as ‘aftercare’, at the end of your session. If you would like time to clean up in the bathroom or take a quick shower at the end of your session this will take the place of your cool down period. Please communicate this prior to the beginning of your session, if possible.

After Your Session

It is polite to send a thank you note to your Dominatrix, some submissives will even choose to send a small gift as a token of appreciation. Most Dominatrices have public wishlists. You may view Lady Vi’s wishlist by clicking here.

It is also customary to submit a review. Lady Vi has a new profile on MistressReview.com (which you are encouraged to use), but also welcomes reviews and testimonials showcased here on her website.

Lady Vi appreciates it when submissives take the time to do both. Gestures of respect and kindness do not go unnoticed. It’s an excellent way to keep yourself bookmarked in her mind long after your session has ended.

Outcall Sessions

If you are not a known submissive of Lady Vi, protocol for scheduling an outcall session will require the name of another Dominatrix whom will speak favorably on your behalf or an in-person meeting so that she may assess your worth.


What is Professional Domination?

Professional domination is the exchange of money or gifts for consensual guided BDSM and fetish activities led by an experienced Dominatrix.

The term dominatrix is sometimes used to describe a professional dominant (or “pro-domme”) who is paid to engage in BDSM with a submissive. An appointment or roleplay is referred to as a “session”, and is often conducted in a dedicated professional play space which has been set up with specialist equipment, such as a “dungeon”. In the contemporary era of technological connectivity, sessions may also be conducted remotely by phone, email or online chat.

Women who engage in female domination typically promote and title themselves under the terms “Dominatrix”, “Mistress”, “Lady”, “Madame”, “Herrin” or “Goddess”.

Professional dominatrices do not offer sexual intercourse as part of their service to clients.

Professional dominatrices may take pride or differentiation in their psychological insight into their clients’ “needs” and fetishes, as well as their technical ability to perform complex BDSM practices, such as Japanese shibari and other forms of bondage, suspension, torture roleplay, and corporal punishment, and other such practices which require a high degree of knowledge and competency to safely oversee.

Source: Wikipedia, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dominatrix

Is it legal?

Yes. In the state of Washington consenting adults choosing to engage in BDSM practices is perfectly legal. Lady Vi only interacts with adults 21 years of age or older. If you meet Lady Vi, prepared to show legal photo identification upon request.

Domination is not prostitution, so if you are hoping to pay for a Dominant woman to take control of you in the bedroom using you to carry out her every sexual desire you will be greatly disappointed. That is not what you will find in your time with Lady Vi.

Lady Vi will not engage in sex or sexual activities.

Lady Vi does not engage in activities that could be considered prostitution or that violate the law. Lady Vi does not engage in activities that jeopardize the health and safety of herself or others. Lady Vi holds herself, her well-being and the well-being of her submissives in the highest regard. You will do the same.

Lady Vi strictly abides by all Washington State Laws and expects her submissives to do the same.

This is non-negotiable.

What if I am just curious?

Lady Vi welcomes submissives of all experience levels, from the novice to the highly skilled.

It is very common for curious individuals to seek the guidance of professionals to see if BDSM is right for them.

Privacy Policy

Lady Vi understands the importance of privacy and discretion. BDSM desires are often kept private for a multitude of reasons. Be it shame or embarrassment, fear of not being accepted by family and friends, or backlash in the workplace.

All activities and identities are kept strictly confidential unless the submissive desires otherwise.

Dangerous or ill-intending individuals should have no expectation of privacy. Dangerous or ill-intending individuals will be blacklisted, and their identities will be shared within the community to protect the health and safety of other professionals in the field.